Friday, November 21, 2008

NEXT QUESTION

Today I am askking another question that concerns the reseach for my book . So I wanted to know from anyone , Is it possible to have a secure relationship even if it started as a lie?

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

The trust may come into question from time to time but if it is true love anything is do-able just agree you and your friend alike to shar you feelings and promise to be truthful regardless of the out come. No lie by deception

Anonymous said...

no, obviously the person was not true to the person or themselves if they had to lie in the first place. trust is the number one thing in a relationship and to start off with a lie shouls say something about that person. not worth it!!!

Anonymous said...

I personally believe that your perseption of that person will be forever changed due to being mis led, and trust will always play a major roll. And if you continue with a relationship.... there will alwayS be doubts. which will lead to arguing, fighting and later there wont be a relationship at all.

Anonymous said...

possibly, but it would be hard to continue a relationship with someone that began with lies and deception. it could be done, but it may not end up being worth it. the question as to whether or not you could ever trust that person to be true to you in your existing relationship would continue to nag at the back of your mind.

kathleen_smith1970 said...

To me, trust is always going to a factor even if the relationship started off differently. Trust has to be earned. Once you've gained that bond between one another and have an open line of communication you become inseparable. You just have to remember not to leave room for error (another person), make sure that he or she knows at all times that they are your sunshine in the morning, daylight for the day and glistening moon an shining star at night.