Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Can sexual affairs transform into real love.

3 comments:

kathleen_smith1970 said...

I truely believe that an affair can transform. Once you cross that line, the sexual act alone can bring on other feelings.

Your already vulnerable if you feel as though an affair is a option, once you develope a relationship a rapport you have opened yourself to see the actual individual for their heart. If the outer part of your partner is appeasing to the eye as well as their intellect stimulates your mind it leave you wanting more.

You find yourself seeing hurt, unhappiness and pain in their eyes that is caused by another, also, hurting you. You want to rectify their pain, and that's when you know your caught up.

Anonymous said...

Yes I do think a sexual affair can transform into love because there is a certin amount of comfort that comes with opening yourself to someone so deeply, the placement of ones sex organs upon another requires a limited trust which can grow from lust to love so quickly sometimes it may not even be reconized until you start to se the sacrafice you start to make for one another (Dont let it sneak up on you.) Been there, done that!

Anonymous said...

Yes, I believe that it can transform. You are going into with no expectation except for the pure erotic pleasure that comes with it. You are more open to letting it all out because you really have nothing to lose. So if the feelings come into play along with the sensual part...I believe that the affair can lead to an affair of the heart.